4 Tips For Attracting Girls

Humor in and of itself is not the proven method for attracting women. When humor is used skillfully, the results are phenomenal. Women LOVE to laugh. They love to have fun. They love to tease and to be teased. The skill is in knowing how, when, and how much humor to use.

Use your body language. Your words account for about 7% of your conversation. Your body language accounts for about 80%, with facial expression and tone of voice accounting for the other 13%. Women are constantly reading people.

No, they can't read your mind, but they are naturally intuitive about people. It's in their genes. Be relaxed in your body language. This includes smiling, making eye contact, laughing, leaning toward her, and so forth. All the humor in the world won't do you a bit of good unless she knows that it's meant for her.

Be a bit of a show off. Everyone knows who's the show off in the room. Believe it or not, women are attracted to this, as long as it's not mean-spirited or used too much. Women like this trait because they are drawn to someone who can take charge of a situation. They also like to be with someone who's smart. How does being a show off do that? When you can attract everyone's attention and make people laugh at outrageous things you come across as friendly. That talent means that you're fun to be with, you're not boring, and you know where the lines of decency are. Therefore, you'll be fun, adventurous, and will respect her.

Be playful with her. Playing around with your mates is ok, but when it comes to women, a lot of guys turn into jelly. Women like to play, too. They like the challenge of the game. Remember, she's there for a reason, too. She loves to banter back and forth, as long as it's kept fun and light.

Make her the center of your attention. Women love it when you focus on them. When you're being funny in a crowd, focus some of that humor on her in a positive way. Compliment her laugh or smile. Say she has a great sense of humor. If you feel daring, challenge her to a battle of wits. Be careful with this last one. It can cut both ways. Remember to keep things positive and lavish the attention on her.

Humor is one of the easiest and most revealing tools you can use. You not only have some fun yourself, but you'll find out about her sense of humor as well. She may be an introvert who doesn't know how to have fun, or she may be fun-loving free spirit. Which one would you choose? You'll know when you use humor.

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