Here's a sample conversation deepening routine that I use on strangers all the time.

1) Fluff talk.

2) Build rapport.

3) Share one vulnerability.

4) Ask either one of the following questions,

a) "What would you do if you had all the money you need and could do anything you want in this world?"

b) "What would you do with your life if you had no chance of failure?"

5) If necessary, confirm it by smiling while asking, "Come on, now...what would you REALLY do?"

6) Ask her what she likes about .
(Example: "What is it that you like about...?"_

7) Tell her you're going to play a cool game.

8) Ask her to close her eyes and picture herself doing what she wants to do.

9) Ask her to describe it.

10) Ask her what kind of emotions she's feeling.

11) Say something like, "You must really enjoy . Because while you were describing it to me, I could see you smiling the whole time.

12) Say "I guess I can relate to that. When I was a kid, I've always wanted to do things that make me feel ..."

13) Tell her a childhood story.

14) Ask her, "How about you? What were you like as a child?"

Congratulations! You have just taken the conversation to a whole new level!

Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women