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By David DeAngelo (Q&A Session)
***QUESTION***
Hi David,
I read your ebook and it's truly helped me very much. I've become more cocky and funny and from time to time I'll pattern or tell stories to add more dimensions. And it's worked very well.
But I have a question for you. I've observed that most, if not all, of my successes come unplanned or unexpected. The ones I've told myself to consciously work on all in some way ended in some disappointment. What's your take on this? And a more general question for you. What do you think to you are the key factors to success (meaning achieving a goal)? much thankx.
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>>>David D's Answer:
As far as success in general is concerned, read "Think And Grow Rich" by Hill. It's all in there.
As far as your successes coming "unplanned", I have some thoughts...
You mentioned that you're acting more Cocky & Funny in general. If you embody the qualities that are naturally attractive to women, then THE CONTENT DOESN'T MATTER. You can talk about anything, and it will work. I've found that I can make women feel attracted to me now just by teasing them and busting on them. I have women ask me out without them knowing ANYTHING about me...
You see, if you have an agenda, other people can usually sense it. They pick it up in your subtle body language.
When you're teasing and acting Cocky & Funny, a woman says to herself "This guy obviously isn't just trying to pick up on me, because he'd never say some of these things if he were..."
And the more you do it, the more fun it becomes, and the more you don't have an agenda... and the more attractive you become. Keep up the good work.
And remember: Be ATTRACTIVE, NOT JUST INTERESTING.
David DeAngelo is the author of "Double Your Dating - What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women", and has taught thousands of men how to be more successful with women and dating.
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