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Once you find out that she has been cheating on you it is only human to want to know how long she has been cheating on you without you knowing about it.
More than likely you thought you were in a committed relationship with her and would like to know when exactly it turned into a one way street with you playing the lead role of the fool.
While you might think that you want to know how long she has been cheating on you, the truth is you cant handle the truth and you already know (if you are honest with yourself) exactly when she stopped being the ideal woman for you and turned into something else.
If not, odds are her cheating ways may have truly been a mistake, yet it is too late to turn back the hand of time.
Your desire to know how long she has been cheating on you isn't going to help you in any way.
In fact, it only gives her the chance to make you an even weaker man than you already will have become and allow her to involve you in a vicious cycle that can and will only benefit her.
All you really need to know once she cheats on you is that the bond of trust that all relationships are based upon has been broken thereby ending the relationship.
Anything other than that is going to put you in a position where cheating is somewhat acceptable and the likelihood of you being cheated on in this or any other relationship increases more than it would have had you broken up with her and not concerned yourself with the length or reasons for her cheating ways.
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