A comment that I hear from men all the time is that women are often illogical when it comes to dating.
I must admit that while I agree, at the same time I have to add another point on top of this one:

Yes, it's true that women are often illogical when it comes to dating, but so are men!

As a dating coach, I can tell you how I see guys do "stupid" things for love every day.
You think a woman is stupid for leaving the nice guy for the jerk?
How about the guy who ruins his career, his finance, AND his family relationships for a drama girl?
Isn't that illogical too?

Here's the truth: attraction works on a different level than pure logic.
If you believe in Freud, then attraction is in the ID while logic is in the Ego.

Just like a woman cannot force you to become attracted to her without "turning you on" first, you cannot expect a woman to be attracted to you without appealing to her inner desires.

But of course, a fine line has to be drawn between listening to your ID or your Ego.
If you listen to your ID and go after anything that is pleasurable, you are either going to end up dying young or locked up in jail.

On the other hand, if you listen to your Ego only, then you're going to be one of those boring dudes that women do not find attractive at all.

Your job as a "Smart Dater" is to learn how to talk in the secret language of attraction and learn how to please a woman's inner desires...WHILE using logic to screen out baggage women that are BAD for you.

The further you stray from that fine line between attraction and logic, the more trouble you are going to find with your love life...so maintain that balance!

Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women