If you've been dating for awhile, you're probably aware that a lot of women like to make comments about how men are jerks and how much it sucks to date an asshole. (It's a common topic on first dates with some women.)

The typical guy will usually agree with her, which will then prompt the woman to start whining about her past relationships and abusive ex-boyfriends.

This is a HUGE mistake on the guy's end! Why?

Because whenever you act like a "cheerleader" and cheer a woman on when she whines about men, it is NOT going to build her attraction for you.

In fact, it's going to LOWER her attraction for you. The more you "cheer" her on, the more she's going to start seeing you as a "friend" instead of a potential lover.

Her respect for you as a man will DROP substantially and you'll be forever locked inside the "friendship jail".

So what should you do when a woman start whining about the jerks she has dated in the past? It's very simple.

Just treat it as one of her tests. Act indifferent. Just shoot her a smile and say, "Well... that's how we men are built. It's why we're men..." Then change the topic and move on.

Congratulations. You've just passed a test most guys fail!

Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women