Ultimatums in relationships or breakups almost never work because the majority of the time it simply is a bluff.

However, at a certain point which might be near the end of the relationship throwing out an ultimatum just might work with her.

Of course, you must be serious about the ultimatum as really it is the only way you can keep your power if the relationship was really at the end instead of near the end.

When a woman tells you that she wants a "break" for whatever reason you must give her an ultimatum of staying in the relationship knowing that she might not change her mind or breaking up for good.

She wants a break because she is either confused or doesn't know how to breakup with you.

If she really is confused she is much more likely to continue doing what she is doing once she is no longer confused.

In other words, a woman who is confused about a relationship who is still in a relationship more than likely will stay in the relationship.

On the other hand, a woman confused in a relationship who is on a break will more than likely continue to be on a break or breakup with you.

Hopefully you realize now that when she asks for a break she is either confused or wants to breakup with you and the only way you will know for certain is if you force her to show her hand and one of the best ways of doing that is giving her an ultimatum.

Even though, some women who are confused might choose to breakup since you broke up with your power in hand there is still a chance that she will want you back.

The ultimatum gives you the power to move on before she really decides what she wants to do.

Which you wouldn't have if the two of you simply went on a break while she decides your future.

Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
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