Almost every relationship that fails does so because of 2 basics reasons

1. Loss of attraction

2. No compelling reason to stay

Now that is not to say that those will be the reasons that are given, however for the most part when a woman breaks up with you those were the reasons why.

Most relationships start with love (attraction) and a belief by both parties that the love (attraction) they have for each other will enough to last a lifetime.

In other words, their compelling reason to stay together in the beginning is based on a love (attraction) that might not and more than likely will not last forever.

For the most part once two people make a commitment like that towards one another they stop doing many of the things that created this love (attraction) in the first place.

Usually by the time attraction begins to wane at least 1 child has been born to create the compelling reason to stay.

If no child exists this is the time that the woman breaks up with you and you begin wanting her back even though for the most part you weren't attracted to her as much as when you first began.

Just because your breaking point was lower than hers and the two of you made a commitment based on attraction which you chose to call a different kind of Love.

Does not mean that she must take you back or even listen to what you have to say.

When your relationship with her ends by her breaking up with you; know that in her mind for some time the attraction has been gone and if she could stay with you she would.

Yet, the truth is being with you was making her worse and worse everyday which quite simply wasn't something she wanted in her life anymore.

Knowing this right now is the time for you too to move on and become more of the man that you wanted to be.

Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com