Be Her Hero, not Her Wuss (part 2)

If she asks you which pair of shoes looks better for the evening, tell her. Have an opinion. Don't just say to her, "I don't know. whatever you like better."

Women often want to just relax knowing that you have taken care of everything. Being decisive means taking the lead and surprising her.

If you are unable to be decisive and take charge, a woman will feel your weakness and take charge for you. She will start telling YOU what to do, nag you, and micromanage you.

Being in control and being decisive doesn't mean domineering control over your woman however. It doesn't mean micromanaging her activities, telling her what to wear all the time, or telling her who she's allowed to see. It does not mean playing the dictator in her life.

You do not need to create a woman who is subservient. In fact, your woman should not hesitate to offer you her advice based on her education, experience, and feelings.

But being in control and being decisive DOES mean that you have direction and are comfortable taking control when the moment arises.

Don't Always Seek her Permission

Don't always ask for her permission or seek her approval. Don't always try to get her clearance every time you want to do something.

If you want to get out of the house and spend some time with your buddies, do it.

If you want to change your style of clothes, do it.

If you want to take her to the beach instead of the movies, do it.

If you decide that you need a change of job career, do it.

You may want to inform her and get her opinion, but be decisive and take a stand for what you feel is best for you. You should consider her opinions in your decisions, but you don't need her permission.

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Derek Vitalio is one of the leading authorities on How to Attract and Seduce beautiful women his book Seduction Science is highly recommended.

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