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Be Less Self Conscious - A Quick How ToHere are a few quick and easy ways to be less self conscious, especially at bars and clubs. Why is this important? When you are being self conscious, you are not in the moment. You are actually about as out of the moment as possible. As you have read and started to realize through this blog, being in the moment is half of what will make you fantastic with women. This is why you Must be less self conscious. But what methods will teach you how to be less self conscious? This is where the fun comes in. You're going to be less self conscious by doing things that would normally make you INCREDIBLY self conscious. Then when you realize that no negative repercussions come from such acts, you will break down your self conscious tendencies little by little. Repeating these processes, along with other techniques you will learn from me, will yield incredible results. So you're in a bar or club and feeling a bit self conscious. This takes you out of the moment, making you less fun and social, and killing your inner party. There first thing to do is Get loud. I mean REALLY loud. Take your friends and start doing things that invade other peoples vocal space. They should hear you and your friends having fun. Make them look at you and break out of your shell of insecurity. It might make you more insecure at first, but who cares, blast past that! Tell a funny story with your friends and get REALLY into it. Use big hand motions, and be LOUD with the funny parts. Feel free to actively act out goofy parts of the story, with loud accompanying sound effects. For example if you're telling involving an animal, fully act out that animals actions, sound effects and all. This burst of energy will not only make you realize it DOESN'T MATTER what ANYONE thinks, but will also boost your inner energy and good time. Another fun thing to do is lay on the floor. Go ahead and lay on the floor. Sprawl out on your back with your legs and arms out. People will ALL look at you. It's OK. I promise it's OK. It WILL feel crazy to you, and you WILL be self conscious the first time you do this, but grin and bear it. Forcing yourself to step out of your comfort level is the only way to be less self conscious. Lay on the floor with everyone staring for a solid 10 seconds. Then just get up and rejoin your friends like nothing happened. A nervous laugh might come out of you, but is completely unnecessary. It's funny because it leaves everyone thinking "What the heck?". Get used to people looking at you. When you are great with women sometimes you will do an entire interaction with a girl, with a whole audience. I've had it happen before. Three normal guys will be listening to your every word and laughing at all your jokes while you are seducing the girl. The only way to accomplish this is to be less self conscious! Use these techniques along with others I have given you to begin the process today. Mad Dawg Noah "Mad Dawg" Tyrrell is a professional seductionist who specializes in teaching men how to meet, attract, and seduce beautiful women, in just minutes! You can check out his book Easy Seduction Solution now.
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