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Articles by Teddy Shabba

 

Best Pick Up Line Is The Pick Up that Isnt There

 

MINIMUM GAME.
This is why I say the best pick up is the pick up that "isn't there".

If you were to watch me or my clients do pick up, you won't be able to "spot" the "moves" because it all looks so natural. The ultimate level of pickup is simply a woman wanting to get picked up, so it's just her playing her part to make it happen, usually though AFTER she gives you a couple of tests.

Now, I want to move on to the next thing, which is to develop the right attitude toward learning these skills.

You have to think LONG term, because THAT way you will ENJOY the interactions and not destroy your inner game from not hitting home runs when you are starting out.

BUT just because you are thinking long term, is not an excuse to be SLOPPY emotionally.

Do it as best you can, otherwise if you take the attitude that you can be sloppy about this just because it's a long term goal, you will NOT improve much.

You will just ingrain bad habits.

So, take it seriously enough to not be a dork.

Think of that special balance between DOMINANCE and RAPPORT.

Be classy, but let your tonality and decisiveness and humor show dominance and value.

I can't stress the dominance enough, because women WILL test you. Even though I understand why women do it, (to absolves themselves of guilt and to see if you're serious and to see if you can handle them, and to see if you are laid back and calm and have a sense of humor about it) it still fascinates me that women will do things to SCREW UP THE PICKUP even though they WANT YOU TO ESCALATE the pickup.

The ONLY way to take care of these "shit tests" is to CALMLY but dominantly overpower the test.

Doesn't matter if it's in real life or even internet dating, you HAVE to conquer these things without getting pissed off.

The chick shows up late to the first meeting?
That can still turn out to be a girl who will be CRAZY about you.

That girl online who is acting all feisty and wants you to give her YOUR number but won't give you hers?

Tell her you don't work that way, because she is going to tell all her friends about the sexy guy she met and show off the number but not call you.

Whatever it is, don't submit to her tests, CONQUER her tests and suddenly you will see her attraction ESCALATES immediately for you. i.e. she will show up on time the next time, and the time after that,
or she will send you her number and ask you to please call her etc.

SERIOUSLY, this is how it works in the REAL WORLD.

Are there ever exceptions?

Only to some minor superficial details, maybe, but NEVER to the PRINCIPLE.

Submitting to her on her tests is always a mistake.


Michael The Dating Wizard has developed a program that helps men "Naturally Attract Women" instead of using memorized pick up lines or someone elses material and methods The Dating Wizard shows you how to be the YOU woman naturally want with his ebook Secrets to Success With Women

 

 

 

   

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