I'm going to show you one of the most common mistakes that the novice Smart Dater make:

Trying to be perfect.

The biggest mistake that I often catch my students make is spending too much time READING things and "preparing" themselves for meeting their dream girl instead of actually DOING and practicing the things I've taught them.

Listen. You will *never* be perfect.

Even I am not perfect. (And I've been doing this for years!)

Here is a rule that I am probably going to add to the next Smart Dating Course update:

"Good enough is enough."

Don't try to learn every single technique before you start flirting with women.

Don't try to be think of every possible scenario or outcome before you approach a woman.

Don't wait until you're "perfect" before you approach a woman.

Chances, you're not going to get it on the first try, second try, or even third try.

These skills take time and patience to develop. If you obsess about being perfect the first time you talk to a woman, you'll NEVER get to talk to her - period.

So instead of worrying about getting it right the FIRST time, focus on taking ACTION.

Go crash and burn - I beg of you.

As long as you learn from your mistakes each time, it won't be a waste...because you can only GET BETTER.

I promise that you will learn *much* faster if you actually go out and PRACTICE instead if just reading my dating tips.

But of course...the biggest objection to this is, "But I can't afford to fail...because she's the only girl I like and she means everything to me..."

Well...let's just say that if you have this kind of attitude, then the battle has already been lost.

Until you can detach yourself from the outcome of a situation, you're never going to be *really* good in an area - be it dating or any other area of your life.

Here's the assignment of the week: I want you to get off your lazy butt and...

1) Make eye contact and smile at 25 women you do not know.

2) Flirt with every woman you talk to casually.

3) Tease the attractive women.

4) Compliment the unattractive women.

5) Go out twice.

Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women