Coming Across As The Shy Guy With Women Online

QUESTION FROM A READER:

Hi dave,

Ok well I have a few questions. I have a opportunity with parts of the time if not most of the time as coming across as the shy guy with women. I do not have a problem walking over and talking to girls or being able to go strait, holding, kissing, or sex. Still, there are women that say I am shy. You think you can help take some of the mystery out of the opportunity for me and tell me the other things you can do to come across as the shy guy that I am not adressing maybe.

Thanks,

walter

MY ANSWER:

Walter, thanks for the email.

Let me clear something up...you ALWAYS want to be a mystery to women. The SECOND you're NOT a mystery, you're done.
She'll move on to another guy.

I'm totally 100% serious.

Now as far as a woman saying that to you? I think if they're saying that you're shy then its a test.

They want you to respond with...

"Oh i'm sorry" or "Oh no i'm not..."

Walter, You feel me?

You're kissing butt or qualifying yourself to them. They won, you lost. Game over my friend.

I'd just smile and them and then with a cocky look say...thanks I'm glad you noticed. then smirk back at them but ALWAYS look in their eyes when you do this. You MUST have her look away FIRST.

I think women will only say something about you IF they like you.

Its like this: Ever have a girl say, you're such an A hole?

She did it cause she liked you. or she might say: You're so funny.

Shes saying that ALSO cause she likes you.

Guess what? I'm shy too! Thats why I got started using the internet to meet women. Its not something you'll normally hear from a dating "Guru" but its totally true. The thought of me approaching a woman in real life scared the living you know what out of me!