Over the past few years, I have noticed a COMMON trait among EVERY man who is successful with women.

Of all the "players" I have met and interviewed, they are almost always very sociable people.

And I don't mean they are just sociable with women.

They are sociable with EVERYONE they come across. No m atter how "alpha" they are, they are NATURAL LEADERS that are CHARMISTIC and SOCIABLE.

They can strike up a conversation with you in 10 seconds, no matter if you're a hot model or just another guy sitting at the bar.

So...before you dream of becoming the kind of guy every woman wants, I want you to take a look in the mirror and ask yourself the following question:

"How sociable am I?"

1) How often do you meet new friends?

2) How often do you talk to strangers?

3) How often do you raise your opinion at work or at school?

4) How easy is it for you to carry on a conversation with a stranger? Not with a hot woman - but with ANY stranger?

As I always say, your love life is merely a REFLECTION of your life in general.

So if you aren't very sociable with women, chances are, you're just not very sociable IN GENERAL.

I know these words sound harsh - but as you know, I always try to show reality in my articles, and reality always hurts.

Here's my suggestion:

Before you pursue your dreams of becoming a player every woman wants, perhaps you should take a step back and think about how you can become a more SOCIABLE person in general.

Not just with women, but with EVERYBODY you meet.

Here are some practical tips on how you can become a sociable person RIGHT NOW:

1) Go out with your friends more often.

2) Invite your friends to do things with you.

3) Hang out with the "groups" at your workplace or school.

4) Laugh at people's joke and make them feel comfortable around you.

5) Be naturally interested in other people.

6) Say "thank you" when others compliment you.

7) Don't be "too modest" when people center turn their attention on you. Thank them (see rule number 6) and compliment them back.

8) Go out AT LEAST twice with your friends every week.

Now...go out and make some friends!

Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women

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