Dating Tip: What Confidence Really Is
Do you lack the confidence to approach beautiful women?
Do you fear rejection?
In this article, I would just like to say a few things about confidence.
Confidence is an attitude that allows people to have positive views of themselves and their situations. Confident people trust their own abilities and have a great sense of control in lives.
People who are confident are confident because they are positive when interrupting their own performances. Their goals are usually very realistic, and even when they do not meet their expectations they will only see it as a small obstacle, but never a complete "failure."
They don’t believe that they need to be approved by anybody, and they are willing to take risks because they don't fear failure.
In contrary, people with no confidence are always insecure about their own abilities. They tend to avoid any kind of risks because they are a failure, and they usually depend on the approval of others in order to feel good.
They also expect negative outcomes in whatever they do, and even when they are mildly successful at something they usually see it as a failure because they are so negative about themselves. They also tend to take criticism from others far too seriously but never the compliments.
Confidence is a big key in attracting women because men who are confident are much, much attractive to women then those who are not. This is why I have included a bonus report on how you can boost up your confidence level in my popular ebook package.
For a simple exercise, think of an actor on TV who seems to be extremely confident around women. Observe how he moves, how he talks, how he interacts with the ladies, and how he deals with tough situations. Now imagine what you would do if you were him? How would you talk? How would you feel?
This is EXTREMELY important because you can not "fake" confidence. You either have it or you don't. Women can tell the difference too. They will be SEXUALLY ATTRACTED to you ONLY if you're actually a MAN, but not if you're a WUSS that's trying to be one.
Take a look back in your past. How many women have you lost because of your shyness? How many girls could you have scored if you were incredibly confident and knew what you were doing?
Okay. Put that in your past. Let's look at the future now. Do you want to be incredibly confident and be attractive to women from now on? Or do you want to stay lonely and frustrated?
Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women
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