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Dating Tip: What Women REALLY Want
So what DO women want? What are their innermost desires? Let's face it. If you have no idea what women REALLY want deep inside, you will never be able to please them completely. You can buy them lots of gifts and obey all their wishes, but they are not going to be attracted to you because you're not giving them what they really want.
Okay. So what DO women want?
Well...
After years of interviewing women and men who are successful with women, I've come to realize that there is only ONE thing most women want from a guy: the ability to surrender to him.
Every woman wants to surrender to the "right" guy.
Don't believe me? Just listen to what the following girls have said to me in past interviews:
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Natalia, age 24: "I want to surrender to a guy. Not as in a 'wave a white flag and let him walk all over me' kind of way, but in a...'surrender to him completely because I feel so GOOD around him' kind of way. My fantasy is to have my guy in a suit...kissing down my neck while rubbing his hands all over my body. I want him to whisper sexy things in my ears...to make me feel I want to surrender to him, to let him take charge of my body."
Meg, age 21: "I don't like guys that suck up to me. I mean, I enjoy it when guys buy me drinks and try to flatter me, but I am not going to be attracted to these men romantically. I mean come on - I need a man who is stronger than me – not a little boy. I want a REAL man who can love, nuture, and protect me. I want a MAN I can ADMIRE, not a boy who admires me!"
Sarah, age 28: "Men should realize that in today's world, women do not NEED men; We DESIRE men. We make the same money as them so we do not need their money. What we need is the FEELING of being in love. The feeling of surrendering to our innermost desires. Like, "I love him so much, I am willing to give up everything - just for him."
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Listen. There is a darker side inside every woman that wants to be dominated by a real man. Not in a "beat me up and abuse me" kind of way, but in a "I want a man I can give myself to" kind of way.
Women DON'T want your gifts and flowers. They DON'T want you hopelessly chasing after them. What they REALLY want is a man who can GIVE THEM THE ROMANTIC FEELINGS THEY FANTASIZE IN THEIR DREAMS and make them feel WEAK in their legs.
They want to think, "I love him so much. I wonder how he feels about me...", not "Wow. That was a nice gift. This boy likes me so much he brought me a necklace!"
They want to feel like YOU'RE the "right one" for them, not because you "love" her and "admire" her, but because SHE feels SHE loves and admires YOU.
Listen:
There are tons of women out there that are WAITING to surrender to you. Your dream date is NOT waiting for you to buy her a flower or "gather the courage" to ask her out. She is waiting for you to ENTER HER LIFE by making her feel "hopefully in love" with you. She wants to feel weak in her legs and melt...into your body.
Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women
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