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It is real easy for some men to blame everything that went wrong in the relationship on the woman.
They then link the painful feelings that they have for her to every woman that they meet.
So they then decide to simply date women with the only intent being to get laid and not get too attached.
This works out great for a while, until those painful feelings that you have towards women start to not hurt so much.
Suddenly, you find yourself dating or talking to a woman that is completely different than any other woman you have met or dated since you were in your last serious relationship.
In your mind, you think that being with all of these different women has somehow given you some insight with women and that you have more experience with women, now.
So you feel as if you are ready to become emotionally attached to a woman again!
However, the reality is, the only thing that those feelings prove is that you have gotten over the pain of your last relationship, finally.
It also means that whatever you did to end the relationship with your ex is still there as well, unless you did something to change it.
Now, I know some of you will still say that whatever ended the relationship was her fault.
Yet, the truth is you chose to be with her and perhaps your inability to choose a good woman is your problem.
The point is just because you can feel emotions for a woman again, doesn't mean you are ready for a new relationship or have solved the problems of your past.
As long as you continue to ignore the problems of your past you are destined to repeat them.
Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com
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