Sometimes the excitement of feeling as if you really connected with a woman on a date can cause you to do things you normally wouldn't do and really shouldn't be doing with a woman you just met.

Mainly, calling her too soon and appearing way too eager to go out on another date with her no matter when or where.

For some of you doing the wrong thing is what you do every time and your dating life suffers because of it.

Getting over excited about having one or two good dates with a woman and then being over eager for another with her, really only attracts two types of women.

1. Needy women

2. Users and abusers

Now if all your uncontrolled excitement and over eagerness attracted was needy women you really wouldn't have too much to worry about as those relationships last until one of you grows out of that neediness phase.

However, when women who are users and abusers get a hold of an eager beaver like you; they are almost certain to break you in the relationship and then leave you long enough so you can somewhat heal and then come back into your life so they can break you again.

Practicing a little self control goes a long way toward attracting the kind of women that you want and that self-control must start from the beginning.

In other words, after a great first date take a deep breath and allow all of that positive energy to spread throughout your body rather than picking up the phone and trying to drain some more energy through it from your newest and apparently only source of good energy that you have found.

Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com