In the past We've talked about eliminating "garbage body language". Today we're going to talk about eliminating"garbage words".

    "Garbage words" are words that many guys use as "filler words" in front of or after a sentence.

    Some examples are...

    - "To be honest..."

    - "Honestly..."

    - "Well..."

    - "Hmm..."

    - "So..."

    - "...eh?"
   
    - "...right?"

    Here's a general rule: If a word or phrase does not have anything to add to a sentence, cut it out!

    Using "filler" words to fill the gaps in a conversation won't make you get rid of the "dead air spots". It will only make you sound weak and unsure - the last thing you want when you're talking to a woman.

    If you're not sure if you're using "garbage words" in your communication right now, here's what I want you to do:

    Get a tape recorder and record yourself having conversations with friends. Then play back the tape and analyse how you talk.

Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women