There are many things guys do wrong when their girls break up with them, but there is ONE MISTAKE that's so common and so DAMAGING that I had to single it out just to make sure that:

a) You're not "guilty" of making it
b) How to avoid it if you're on the brink of making it
c) How to correct it if you already ARE making it

This mistake is none other than showing your girl that you're desperate for her. It's doing things such as:

* Repeatedly telling her you love her
* Calling her non-stop to check up on her
* Asking (or begging) her to give you another chance
* Telling her that she's "the one" and that you can't live without her
* Letting her know that you love her and will always be there for her

Every one of those things sends a clear message to your girl: that you are a desperate guy in dire need to be with her. The consequences?

a) It pushes her further away
b) It reassures her that she made the right decision to end this

As I have told you many times before, your girl wants to be with the guy she met, not the guy that you've become.

And there's nothing that women hate more than a needy guy - the exact opposite of what you were when you started dating her.

What you need to understand is that there's a small window of opportunity for you to get her back.

But if you manage to rack up enough "negative points" that window will soon slam shut, crushing any chances of being together again.

Now I realize that it's hard (or near impossible) to avoid this mistake and that's why 99% of guys are guilty of making it. And you know what?

It's perfectly natural because it's a logical reaction to rejection.

However, if you TRULY want her back you need to start making some drastic changes. And you start by avoiding mistakes that make things worse.

And the best way to avoid the most crucial mistake and make sure you don't become desperate is to re-read, understand, and internalize the solution to Common Mistake #1 on page 5 of the report I have created.

I can't stress enough how important this is and how much weight it bears on your overall situation.

And if you've already made this mistake, then putting an end to it right now goes a long way in correcting it.

About the Author: George Karanastasis is recognized as one of the leading experts on men's relationship repair and creator of Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - a book dedicated to helping men with their relationship problems.