So it can be really hard to fix all the problems with your game, and with your life.

One thing guys are extremely unconscious of, is their focus. Which is weird...it's one of the great mysteries of life...

How can someone pay attention to something, but NOT KNOW THEY ARE PAYING ATTENTION TO IT???

Well, the truth is, YOU DO KNOW what you're paying attention to...you just don't know is that it's WRONG.

Let me say this: THE BIGGEST ASPECT TO STICKING WITH A GOAL IS MOMENTUM

But...

If you're not AWARE of your focus, it's impossible to even get this ball rolling

So what do I mean by focus?

Well your focus leads to beliefs -habitual foci...

I actually did a lot of mental "experiments" in my life, especially when I was starting out with picking up women.

And there's a point where it gets REALLY TOUGH. That's when you know you've hit your ego at the core.

The ego protects itself - in fact, all it knows is to perpetuate itself.

Your ego will do a whole number of things to sabotage your personal growth. For example, as soon as you start improving yourself, your ego will say

STOP, YOU'VE DONE ENOUGH, THIS IS EASY, THERE'S NO NEED TO GO FURTHER

Because the ego is scared to death that you will discover him, and kill him. So he fools you.

It's your EGO, SCARED TO CHANGE, that stops you from changing, from growing.

Here's the good news...

Your ego is JUST A PIECE of your total thoughts...it just infiltrates your thoughts, so it can be hard to discern.

One thing I really hate to see is when Western Society tries to confuse guys for MONETARY GAIN.

It's disgusting. One thing I take pride in is I don't require my clients to be return customers.

My guys come back to me because I offer what really works. In fact, the only time clients come back for more is when they get to ELITE LEVELS, and have NEW ISSUES to deal with.

I'd say one of the biggest problems guys deal with, is created by society - and it's MISINFORMATION.

When you're not informed on what's REALLY important, it's easy to be misled....

And sexual frustration can totally skew your sense of reality. That's why success can seem so scary.

If you're used to being frustrated, and using your right (or left) hand to gratify yourself, the concept of having a HAREM OF WOMEN will actually seem scary subconsciously.

But ask yourself this - when you are 80 years old, what are you going to say?

"I played it safe, but didn't really accomplish anything or grow as a person"

OR

"I took risks, worked hard, and was the best MAN I could be."

Give it some thought. Vin DiCarlo has written The Attraction Code to help men achieve what they are looking for in women.