When a man complains that he has a hard time meeting women it generally means they are not in the habit of meeting women but in the habit of avoiding women.

Whereas a woman who says she has a hard time meeting men generally means she doesn't get hit on a lot.

Men meet women because most women don't want a man who doesn't have the balls to come up and meet her himself.

Women like confidence and if you aren't even confident enough to introduce yourself, well then what good are you to a woman.

Of course lots of men aren't in the habit of meeting women because the only ones that you want to meet and talk to are the ones that you like.

Yet, you don't meet and talk to them since you don't have any previous history of meeting and talking with women.

What makes it even harder is when someone gives you the advice of talking to her as if you were not attracted to her at all, which means for you it is not talking to her at all since you don't talk to women you aren't attracted to, but you wont admit it since that would make you appear to be more shallow than you want people to know.

So the solution to your problem is quite simple in order to get in the habit of meeting women you must make a conscious effort to meet and talk to women who you don't find attractive and continue to not talk to women you find attractive.

In fact you should see just how far you can push the conversation with unattractive women till you get them to give you their phone # without asking.

Once you get this down I still want you to not talk to attractive women, but, instead begin pretending that women you find attractive are some of the unattractive women you talked to before and talk to her as such.

Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com