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Many men read my articles when it comes to dealing with a woman after she cheats and know that the words that are written are the truth.
They begin to realize that the truth is what has been written and they trust me to tell them the truth.
What men most often ask me is "How can I make it work?" or "We have decided to give it one more try and I want to know what I can do to make it work?"
Yet, truthfully speaking it is beyond my powers of influence to change a woman who lies, deceives, or cheats and there is nothing you can do to change that.
Only she has the power to change her deceitful and lying ways and your agreement with her to stay even though you know of her cheating and deceitful ways gives her no compelling reason to change.
All your agreement has done is given her a reason to come up with even more creative ways to deceive you, which she may have already done when she agreed to work things out with you.
Whatever problems led to her cheating existed before and were known by her before she cheated on you which is when you should have made the agreement to work on the relationship with her.
Doing it after she cheats is just like grandma agreeing to not kill the family pet pig after she already cooked him.
In the end, the agreements that you make after she cheats must be made with the woman you find yourself with after her.
Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com
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