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Articles by Teddy Shabba

 

Importance Of Going To Bars and Clubs To Attract Women

Clubs are not the end all and be all.

Really!

In fact, I've noticed that in general, the women who ARE attractive in clubs tend to have a higher rate of drinking and smoking than the women who are attractive that you meet randomly in places like the library, the bookstore, the café, etc.

It's important to me to always be 100% honest and accurate. 

That being said, the fact ALSO is that it doesn't MATTER that clubs aren't necessarily the best place to meet a "quality" woman. 

The main thing is getting the SKILLS, and clubs offer you a FANTASTIC place to get TONS of practice interacting with TONS of different women. 

Also, because of the vibes of clubs, you can also get a chance to develop your skills at building up physical contact smoothly and properly. And because of the music and the crowds and her friends, you improve your vocal skills, your social skills at dealing with her friends, your sense of humor, your dominance, etc. 

And you learn to do it all in a way where you never lose the sense of just having fun and being laid back, believe it or not.  Which is important, as NONE of this stuff works if you are feeling STRAINED.

But in order to get to that point, you have to build yourself up, just like at the gym the weights first feel heavy, then feel light after you get stronger.

The idea is always to use MINIMUM energy and be as relaxed as possible, while simultaneously still being fun, playful, dominant, sexual, etc.

ALWAYS do as LITTLE as possible. The way to know how little to do is to ask
yourself "what states is she ALREADY in right now, so that I don't have to
bother with that". 

So for example, if a girl was ALREADY laughing, and feeling comfortable, and feeling TURNED ON, for WHATEVER reason, all you have to do is go in and say  
hi, my name is _________ and say it in the same energy level she is at.

Because, EVERTHING HAS ALREADY been DONE STATE-WISE.

That's why at a bookstore, you don't have to focus as much on creating a "normal" vibe, since the environment is ALREADY laid back and normal. 

But you DO have to add a little energy to the mix or you will seem like a BORING guy.

Whereas at a club, she already feels more energy because of the environment, so it's easy to do fun playful stuff there, as it makes total sense there, but then you need to work a little harder to create some "real genuine" rapport --

because that environment on its own is a "heightened" energy (music, lights, fun, sexuality) that allows women a bit more social license to loosen up a little, which also makes women thus be TOUGHER the next day on NOT taking seriously the guy they met at the club the night before UNLESS he worked on creating solid rapport as well.

The reality is that all this is just the TIP of the ICEBERG. 

When you get the full picture, you'll see how all this is not as difficult as it seems. The various elements of attraction and pick up are all RELATED and the more pieces of the puzzle you learn, the easier it is to understand and put the OTHER pieces together as well in a natural way.  The natural vibes of sexuality, high self-esteem, powerful self concepts, playfulness, sense of confident humor, cool style all fit together PERFECTLY. 

This is NOT about manipulation unless you DECIDE TO MAKE IT THAT.

This is about making things better for YOU and better for WOMEN. In fact, just the other night I met this girl and we eventually got around to talking about what we do, because we're both creative types. 

Her first reaction to what I do is that it's a great thing, because it helps women as much as it does men. 

Funny how so far, every single high self esteem woman I've met has been COOL about what I do.

Because, you see, women WANT to meet a cool guy, and they would LOVE it if he was cool enough to know how make the entire experience SMOOTH and PLAYFUL and SEXUAL.   

If you would like to get the FULL PICTURE on how to do this and how to KEEP her attracted, the most advanced technology on Earth is now available to be delivered to you via my Seduction Mastery Apprenticeship Program.

Michael The Dating Wizard has developed a program that helps men "Naturally Attract Women" instead of using memorized pick up lines or someone elses material and methods The Dating Wizard shows you how to be the YOU woman naturally want with his ebook Secrets to Success With Women

 

 

 

   

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