For the past few weeks, my hot friend Sherry has been telling me about this "really hot guy" she's been seeing.

"You've got to meet him", she keeps telling me, "He's HOT!"

Since Sherry is a very attractive girl and quite the player when it comes to the dating game (we trade dating secrets all the time), I believed her...

But when I finally met him last night...

I ALMOST CHOKED!

The guy's at least 20 pound overweight and not that handsome at all. In fact, he's plain-looking if not ugly.

And did I mention he's also 4 years younger than Sherry?

Granted, I was extremely disappointed - until I started talking to him.

It turned out he's one of the coolest persons I have ever met.

He's funny, well-mannered, and ambitious.

His knowledge ranges from economy and politics to music and
art.

He also knows a lot about Titan, the probe that was sent to a moon around Saturn. He clearly has a gift for making everything sound so interesting.

So there I was...listening to one of his stories about the shark-cage diving trip he made last year (he's also well traveled) when I suddenly realized...

"This guy has a GREAT personality!"

I bet that's how Sherry felt when she first met him too.

This real life experience really demonstrates how it's EXTREMELY important to have an AWESOME personality.

Even if you're a little average in the looks department,you can offset it by having a GREAT personality.

If you have a great personality that's naturally charming, women will still find you "really hot"!

Remember: You can't change your looks, but you CAN pick up a cool personality!

Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women