By David DeAngelo (Q&A Session)

***QUESTION*** 

I just started the DVD series, and I can't say  enough good things about it.  I can already feel  my confidence and self-image improving.   

I realized something recently that I'm sure you  and a lot of other guys have encountered.  When I  talk to my guy friends about girls I'm dating or  interested in, they tend to encourage and push me  to action.  When I talk to my female friends about  girls I'm dating or interested in, they tend to  say negative things about the girl and plant  doubts in my head.  What do you think about that?   Even though there's no romantic interest between  me and my female friends, are they acting  competitive on some subconscious level?   

R.C, Dallas   

  

>>>David D's Answer:  

THE ANSWER IS YES.  

If you think MEN are competitive, just wait until you start dating more WOMEN.  

You will not believe how competitive women are.  

A friend of mine pointed something out to me a few years ago. 

He said "You know when you go out to a nice bar or club, and all the women are dressed up, have their hair done, and their makeup perfect? Well they're not fixed up like that for the men.. it's for the other WOMEN."  

Now, at first that made no sense to me.  

But the more I've paid close attention, the more I realize that it's RIGHT ON.  

Women are VERY competitive.  

In fact, one of the best ways to meet women is to GO OUT with a cute female friend (or more than one).  

Women are always more interested in a guy who already has women around him than a guy who doesn't.  

This is one of the reasons why so many married guys talk about how much more often they're approached by women now that they're married.. 

Female psychology is VERY interesting.  

You will learn a TON as you go through my DVD program. It's going to blow your mind.  

If you think you're feeling confident now, just wait until you get further into it.. and then go out and try some of the things you're learning.. and then come back and watch it again.  

That program is like a treasure map, with all the clues you need to find the gold.  

It has taken me YEARS to really put all of the pieces together.. from female behavior and psychology, to ATTRACTION, to the things you need to do to change your self-image and shyness around women into comfort and success.  

Thanks for the comments.  ...and if you're reading this right now and you're thinking "Yea, that's what I need.. to get this part of my life handled", then guess what?  

YOU'RE RIGHT.  

You do.  

David DeAngelo is the author of "Double Your Dating - What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women", and has taught thousands of men how to be more successful with women and dating.

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