Okay, so for many of the guys out there for a variety of reasons changing your beliefs in order to eliminate the problem of how long you should give a woman to decide when you ask her out on a date isn't an option yet.

While the option below isn't going to solve the real issue of her not actually going out on the date, it will give you an immediate answer rather quickly.

Anything other than "yes" should be treated as a no and you need to let her know that is how you operate before you ask her out and after if she is giving you a maybe or any other wishy-washy answer.

It is also important that you realize you have little control over whether she shows up for the date or not.

In fact, the earlier you ask her out the less control you actually have in her showing up for her date with you.

It also means that you are eliminating options that you have control over much earlier than what an option you have so little control over deserves.

Of course, if she does cancel or flake you can always go back to the original option that eliminated this problem to begin with on the options you might have for the night.

However, if you are willing to do that with other women right now you must ask yourself what is so special about this woman that you are willing to treat her differently than the rest?

Once you can discover the answer to that you also will know what you need to change now in order to get what you want.

In the end, if you have to choose between two options that can get you what you want will you choose the one that gives you the least or most amount of control.

Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com