I want to pass
along what I consider the most effective way to ask a girl for her
phone number:
We read from people who have web pages and write books about meeting
women is that they say ASK for their phone number. Well, they are
right, but let me add something else that is more powerful than just
asking for their phone numbers. You don't just say, "Can I have
your phone number?" Why? Because, like all good salesmen are
told, by asking a question where the answer is a "yes" or
"no" they will more likely say no (unless you did all the
right things before).
So, with pen and paper handy, ask them, "Could you write down
your phone number here?" Women usually automatically comply.
We, including men, do as we are told, and with women, more so. You
are also using that take charge attitude that most women want in a
man. Of course, when she gives you her phone number, give her yours.
Try this method of getting phone numbers. I'm sure you will be happy
with the results!
One more thing, if you say anything about calling her at a certain
time, do so. Otherwise, they will think less of you when you do call.
They might not even meet you. Even if you don't make a plan to her
to call on a certain day, but wait a week or more before you do call,
they would think that they are not important to you. So you blew your
chance.
P.S. -This article was written by Don
Diebel. If you would like more information on how to successfully
meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit
his website at: www.getgirls.com
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