Today I'm about to reveal one of the most *valuable secrets* a guy can discover for being wildly successful meeting women, (both online and offline) which is a big "ah-ha" experience for most guys - and that is this:
You must convey to women that you are someone with *high* value.
All too often, I see guys lower their value in the eyes of the women they're interested in, and the things they say and do clearly indicate their lack of self esteem.
In an effort to "get" the woman, they often end up chasing after her, trying to win her over, or come off like they "want" to get something from her. That's the equivalent of putting a price tag on your head that says:
"Bargain Clearance - 80% Off - Buy It Now"
So lets take a deeper look at things, how would you define value?
If you were to use a classic muscle car for instance, what is the value of a '67 corvette convertible?
WHATEVER SOMEONE IS WILLING TO PAY FOR IT.
Think about this for a moment.
Well, guess what? Sometimes value has NOTHING to do with what something is "worth". A pair of Nike
Sneakers that costs to make may have a value of 0 -- or more, because people are willing to pay that much for it.
Nike has a high "perceived value" because of the image they created for themselves in the market.
WHAT IS YOUR VALUE TO WOMEN?
Answer: Your value to women is whatever YOU create for yourself.
The more valuable you appear in a woman's eyes, the more she'll want to be with you - and the less valuable you are in her eyes, the less she'll want you.
What signals could you be projecting unconsciously -- making women believe you to be someone with low value?
If you gave all your power away, chased after her via email and on the phone -- when you do meet her, do you think you've increased your value with her?
If you're always chasing women, emailing them at midnight on a saturday night, willing to meet them anytime they want, or talking on the phone for hours before you've even meet,
DOES THAT MAKE YOU MORE VALUABLE IN HER EYES?
If your answer was anything but a confident "NO!", then I can tell you *exactly* why you aren't getting the results you want meeting women online.
She didn't perceive you as someone of value TO HER. Human nature tells us this: We want what we can't have, and we value what we have to work for.
That's the way every human being operates, it's hard wired into our brains.
So knowing this, how do you become someone of great value to her?
Simple.
Here's a cool tip to controlling exactly what women think of you -- without saying a word.
You do it by becoming what I call a "in-demand" guy. By this, I don't mean being a guy who goes about bragging how many women he has chasing after him, or being a show off who comes off as insecure.
It means making a woman regard you as someone other women desire. When you are able to do this successfully, she will be curious to find out more about you and she'll be hanging on your every word.
The "trick" is to do what companies like Nike and others do to give their products high perceived value so you can have a high perceived value in women's eyes and make them chase you.
In my program, "
Insider Internet Dating," I reveal exactly how to make yourself more valuable in the eyes of the women you want meet. I even show a fun, simple technique you can do *anytime* that will ingrain this important principle into your brain and make her chase you (instead of the other way around).