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A common question that I get from my readers all the time is,
"What should I do if another man insults me or makes fun of me while I am with a woman?"
Here's my recommendation:
Do what politicians do: laugh it off!!!
Remember...a person's words can only hurt you if you react to their negativity. They only win when YOU allow them to.
But if you act like you don't care about the stupid comment at all, then all of a sudden...the insult loses its power!!!
So next time a "big guy" tries to put you down or make fun of you when he sees you with a beautiful woman, here is what I want you to do:
Smile!
I want you to flash your biggest, brightest, and cockiest smile at him.
You can even shake your head a bit as you throw back your head and laugh with him. This will show that you're the alpha male of the group, and that no matter what he has just said, he's still the loser - not you.
Also, if you're a very witty person, you can consider throwing back the person's insult with a witty retort after disarming him with your laugh.
Ha! Who's the loser now???
Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women
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