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**QUESTION FROM A READER**
Dave - I wrote to a girl once, and got no reply, but she checked me out, so I wrote to her a second time, playfully accusing her of being a stalker and told her I hope she wasn't the usual “Barbie Doll I meet at clubs.
She wrote back with:
'I am definitley not a Barbie....Please!!! I am far to intelligent for that!! I am sorry but I am just not
interested. Best of luck to you! Take care'
Any way to recover from this? Or do we chalk this one up to 'attraction isn't a choice'?
Gabe
Dave M COMMENTS
Gabe, my first question is why would you want another round with this woman?
You didn't include your 1st email, so I have no clue what you sent her initially, but let's roll with
this:
What you sent didn't work.
I'd suggest tinkering with the email you're currently using... make it less confrontational and more
conversational. as if you're intrigued by her but she hasn't won you over yet.
Try writing the email from that perspective, a more personal, friendly tone... like you're
talking to a friend.
One thing I must tell you is that I never accept rude behavior from women. If she wants to be rude and miserable, thats her problem, but she needs to take it elsewhere because I don't deal with it.
So if you did happen to reply (not that I would) you could say something to the effect of:
' You know [her name], One of these days you're going to see a guy you'd really like to meet either online or in person, but it will never happen because he's going to pick up on just how much of a rude and miserable person you are.'
Best of luck with your search
[your name]
IF you feel the need to send an email, something along that line would be fitting.
Personally I wouldn't waste my time with anything negative. Don't get sucked into her misery.
Dave M has one of the most amazing education system for meeting women off the internet that will teach you just that. It's called: "Insider Internet Dating". This program shows YOU how to copy his EXACT plan...From start to finish.
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