|
Today I am going to teach you the proper way to flirt on the phone.
Flirting on the phone is a lot like flirting in person. You tease a woman and act playful. But what's different about flirting on the phone is that you're mostly relying on your voice instead of your body language.
Unlike talking to a woman in person, you can't use any body language when you are talking on the phone. This creates a big problem, as according to scientists more than 93 percent of our communication is based on non-verbal communication.
What this means is that you should pay EXTRA ATTENTION to your voice tone whenever you talk to a
woman you're interested in on the phone.
So here's the secret to flirting on the phone:
USE YOUR FLIRTY VOICE!
From the moment you say "hello" on the phone with a woman, I want you to use your flirty, playful voice. Don't start using it in the middle of the conversation. Start using it RIGHT AWAY. (For the same reason you want to make physical contact with a woman as soon as possible while on a first date.so that it won't become awkward when you finally touch her.)
If you're uncomfortable with using your flirty voice, then you really need to open up and be more playful.
I can promise you that if you never flirt or be playful with women, you're not going to have much success in dating. Women are just going to talk to you because they think you're a good "friend".
Here is a good exercise for developing a flirty voice:
Imagine the person you're talking to is in the same room with you and you're flirting with her on the
couch. Her face is just inches away from yours, and there's some intense eye contact going on. Now adopt the same expression on your face and body language with you body. Finally, project all of this to the woman you're talking to by slowing down your speech just a bit - especially on the vowels.
Chances are.she's going to "see" you through your voice!
Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women
|