Dating Advice Coach

Today's tip will be very simple and short. I'm going to show you how to "lead" a woman.

The key to "leading" a woman is to "make up her mind for her".

Here's the truth: even though most of us cry about wanting freedom for ourselves, we actually want other people to make decisions for us. (This way, we don't have to accept responsibility for our own actions.)

A lot of business people know this, and that's why they often don't give you many choices when you buy something.

Studies have shown that the more choices you offer a consumer, the harder it will be to make the sale because the person will have trouble "making the decision".

The same principle applies to dating. The more choices you offer a woman, the more confused she will be. The more firm you are about something you've already picked out for her, the more likely she'll go along with it.

For example, let's say you are trying to get a woman to have one more drink because you think it will help her relax.

However, she's not sure if she can have another drink.

You could give her a choice and ask her if she would like to have another drink. She'll probably say no.

Or...

You could you visualize her laughing and acting happy once she has gulped down the drink. Then you say, "Come on, baby, just have the shot. I know you can do it." Then before she can react, follow through with action by handing her the shot glass. Finally, command her by saying "drink it". If you use the right voice tone, 9 out of 10 times the woman will obey you and have the shot. (Note: I don't encourage you getting women drunk. I am just using this common scenario as an example.)

The key here is to be sincere, direct, and authorative. If you use a "funny voice", the woman will "play along" and show you resistence just for the sake of giving resistence.

If you use a nervous voice, she will think that it is wrong to have the drink. Finally, if you sound too smooth, she will think that you're "trying something" and build up her defenses as a result.

To have the correct voice tone when you command a woman to do something, think of yourself as her protector -someone who just KNOWS what's good for her. Going back to the drinks example, think about how much more relaxed she will feel once she has finished the drink.

Or if you're trying to get a woman in bed, think about how good she will be feeling when she's crying out your name in bed.

Always think about what SHE will get instead of what you would like to get from here.

Think about HER end state instead of your own.

With a bit of practice, you can use this skill on men as well. Once you have mastered the ability to encourage other men to try doing things they wouldn't normally do on their own, you will find yourself becoming an alpha male with an ever increasing pack of followers!

Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women