In this article I'm going to show you a way to make all the exercises I've taught you in the past to work much better for you.

It's really simple...I want you to find the joy in doing the exercises.

You know...a lot of guys go out and "repeat" the exercises I've prescribed as if they are "chores" that they "have" to do.

They go out and flirt with a 100 women like a robot...or they approach a dozen women while "counting down" the number of women they "still" need to approach before they can go home.

Pardon me, but how is a person EVER going to have success with this way of thinking?

From now on, for every assignment or exercise that I tell you to do, I want you to find some JOY in doing it.

You see...there are two ways to do every exercise.

One way is to treat it as a "routine task" that you have to do and not pay much attention to it.

The other way is to give it your heart and find joy in doing it.

I don't think I need to tell you which method will bring you better results.

Painter Picasso has once said that "When I work, I relax.

Doing nothing or entertaining visitors makes me tired".

I think the same thing can be said of dating. If you model yourself after all the greatest lovers and romancers in this world, you will find that one common trait they have is that they genuinely love being with women.

They don't see it as "work", they see it as "play". Even when they are acting like a challenge or pulling back from a woman, they see it as a form of playing and relaxing.

So...from now on, whenever you talk to a woman, give her your complete attention.

Enjoy talking to her.

Love the process of flirting with her and making her feel great.

Enjoy the moment!

The goal is to make dating FUN for you. I don't want you to fear approaching women or dread talking to them.

If you let go of all your expectations and just ENJOY approaching and talking to women, you're going to see much better results.

Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women