How To PRE-frame Obstacles Into Challenges
Last time I taught you how to reframe obstacles into challenges. Today I'll teach you how to PRE-FRAME obstacles into challenges before they even become a problem. For example, lots of readers have told me how women often do not like them because they are too short or too <insert whatever excuse here. Well, guess what? To turn this "ex-force" into attraction, all you have to do is "turn it around" and act like a challenge BECAUSE of the reason! If you are bald, joke about her having too much hair. Heck, call her "Cousin It" (from Addam's Family) and tell her that her hair is scary. Ask her when was the time she washed her hair! If you're older, make it clear that you're only into mature, responsible women who are NOT the average stupid bombshell. If you're younger, let her know that you want someone who's excited about life and is not afraid of adventure. If the woman is of another race, then talk about the mysteries of your own race and how she's probably not going to be able to handle you. Once, a black student of mine told a white woman that he's only into black women because "white women can't handle his big dick". The woman worked all night to get into his pants. When I told this story to an Asian student of mine, he adapted it for his use by telling women that his "4000 years of Forbidden sex secrets" was probably too much for them to handle. Then he played up to his role by telling them that if they wanted to have a piece of him, they would have to become one of his "Chinadoll- Concubines." He completely shattered the myth that Asian men cannot get women. Think about how you can do the same for YOUR "problem"!
Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women |
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