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I am often asked, "How should I tease a woman once I'm in a relationship with her?"
The answer is quite simple. You do the same things you've always done...except for ONE thing:
You now only tease her ALONE, but not in front of other people.
When you're courting a woman, you should tease her in front of other people so that you'll raise your own social proof, lower her social proof, and also act like a challenge.
But that changes once you get into a relationship with a woman.
If you tease your girlfriend in front of other people, it will seem like you're putting her down.
It will appear you care more about your buddies (or other women in the room) than you care about her.
At the same time, you don't want to stop teasing her because you don't want the attraction to drop.
So the solution is to do it when there aren't any other people nearby.
Make the teasing part of the "bubble" that is around the two of you.
Make it seem like you tease her because you're STILL in love with her.
Here's one rule you can go by:
Compliment her when you're in front of other people, and tease her when you're alone!
Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women
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