Here's a technique for getting a woman or an ex- girlfriend you haven't seen for a long time to feel comfortable around you: Rapport Resumption.

Instead of building rapport from scratch again, just act like if you've always been friendly towards her and that nothing had ever gone wrong between you too.

Even if you had suffered a nasty breakup, don't mention it or act bitter. No matter how harsh the breakup was, keep a smile on your face and be a tiny bit excited about seeing her, as if nothing had ever gone wrong.

This will put the woman at ease and make her feel more comfortable talking to you again.

Remember: the more nervous you are when you talk to her, the more nervous SHE will be. But by acting happy, cheerful, and confident, you will overcome the negative barriers that she might have put up as a result of the breakup or not seeing you for so long.

You can also use this technique after a fight to raise the chemistry again. Just act like nothing was wrong and flirt with her.

Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women