She hurt you and she hurt you really bad, you never really saw the divorce coming and now that it is final your next goal in life is getting revenge on her for breaking your heart.

When you are not emotionally wrapped up in it, it's easy to tell someone who is wrapped up in it that trying to get revenge isn't going to do you any good.

You already know that, but it's easier to use that energy on getting her back rather than letting her go.

As long as you try to get her back you don't have to let her go even if revenge is the only way you think or know that you can get her back.

After all it is the memory of her that your revenge is based on.

You also already know that if you succeed in your revenge you still will get her back in other ways as well.

Perhaps, you getting her back will cause her to seek revenge on you and want to get you back.

Now, the two of you can forever be together getting each other back.

Of course, what started as a way to get her back will only end when you forget what it is you wanted to get back.

Confused?

Of course you are, as the only thing that is here is energy waiting to be used.

Now, that I have your attention you can choose to use that energy in a way that leads you to what you want which is what you had only with someone else.

You can direct you energy towards someone new and create bigger and better memories with the new women in your life, until you find the next Woman of your life.
As that just might be the best revenge of all.

Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com