I am sometimes asked, "Marius, what if all of my friends seem to hate my girlfriend because they think she is bad for me?"

Well, if your friends hate your girlfriend because of her personality (not because of race or social class), then I am sorry to say that I have to side with your friends without even meeting your girlfriend.

In my experience, friends are usually right when it comes to judging a woman's character. Since they are not in love with her like you are, they can see through her mask and see her flaws.

Here's an example:

A few weeks ago a reader emailed me for help because his friends believed his new girlfriend was a slut, a "bitch", and a cheater.

He refused to believe them and emailed me to see how he could get them to get along with each other. (His girlfriend hated his friends too and didn't like him hanging out with them.)

Last week, he emailed me again to tell me he just found out his girlfriend had been cheating on him the whole time. Not only that, he actually caught her in bed with another guy.

Seeing is believing, I guess.

Never forget that your friends and family USUALLY want the best for you when it comes to picking a good mate. If everybody seems to hate a woman you're dating, perhaps they must have a good reason.

Think about this REALLY hard if you're in that situation.

Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women