You can't give a woman the gift of raised self-esteem if you have none of it going for yourself. It's not cool at all to a woman when a guy deep down has weak self-esteem.

It makes her feel she is with an immature little boy.

And it's NOT JUST THE FACT THAT SOME GUYS DEPEND ON ACTS AND
ROUTINES, AND "LINES", it's ALSO the fact that MOST MEN have BOUGHT
INTO THE LIE that most dating gurus THEMSELVES have bought into: THAT RELATIONSHIPS ARE HOPELESS.

Because of their belief in this LIE, they view all women as EVIL.

Also, some of the "gurus" know they are telling a lie, but it helps sell more stuff, because if the only thing women are good for is using and dumping, then it makes a more compelling case for the need to get their product, since, after all, otherwise, the "evil women" will rip you to shreds.

Now, here's the thing:
It IS true that if you don't have the fundamentals in place internally, you WILL get ripped to shreds, but that does NOT mean that women are evil.

It's just that women have to make a decision pretty fast when you just meet them and you only have a few moments to make an impression, so the process has become pretty ruthless.

Here's ANOTHER BIG THING:
We are living in a society of MASS CONFUSION.

We have WAY MORE OPTIONS to live our lives in any way we CHOOSE than ever before. Theoretically, people should be happier than ever.

But of course, the result of this has actually been much more feelings of life being MEANINGLESS.

Most people don't appreciate what they have, and they feel that they are still missing something be it new Nikes, or a different life partner, or something totally arbitrary.

Yet, FUNDAMENTALLY, the fact is that just about ALL HUMAN BEINGS still need the same things as always - a feeling of self-worth, a feeling of trust and bonding with their partner, and a life with meaning.

In MANY ways, THESE days, these very things, these very emotions, are at an ALL TIME DROUGHT.

And it's NOT COOL to talk about it.

So what do most guys do?

They follow the TRENDS, they try to appeal to a woman on how cool they are, they show off about their job, they try to put in subtle hints about how cool they are, etc etc.

And what do most women do?
They do similar things, they try to act like what COSMO tells them guys want, they try to act like what COSMO tells them they SHOULD want, even if deep down they DON'T.

Nobody's got the REAL BALLS to put it on the line. And to NOT be acting APOLOGETIC for it!

Michael The Dating Wizard has developed a program that helps men "Naturally Attract Women" instead of using memorized pick up lines or someone elses material and methods The Dating Wizard shows you how to be the YOU woman naturally want with his ebook Secrets to Success With Women