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Right now I am going to teach you a very important rule for flirting with women over email:
Keep your messages SHORT.
A common mistake that I've seen many of my readers make when they email a woman is that they babble on and on.
Some of them even try to use "hypnotic patterns" that they have learned elsewhere on the Internet.
They literally write paragraphs describing the sensations of going on a first date or for a romantic talk on the beach...
Or sometimes, they write pages about their own dreams and ambitions...(As if a woman cares!)
The problem with writing these "long-assed" emails is that NOBODY likes reading long emails.
Heck, I hate them too...
Every time I receive an email that is a dozen paragraphs long, I feel like hitting the delete button.
But that's not the most important point.
The most important point is that when you're flirting over email, you are not getting any feedback in real-time.
In other words, there's NO way of knowing what you're doing right or wrong.
THAT's the problem with writing these long descriptions and "hypnotic patterns".
You have NO idea how well it's working.
In a real world conversation, if you sense a woman is not interested in talking about something, you can sense it right away and change topics.
But that's impossible to do over email.
If you make a mistake at ANY point in your email, be it the first, second, and eleventh sentence, you're going to lose her interest.
She's not going to want to keep reading. Even if she does, her attraction will probably lower as you keep dwelling on something she doesn't care about.
The longer your email is, the more her attraction will drop!
Here's my advice: Keep your email messages short and crisp...and if you DO want to flirt with women online, then consider using Instant Messenger instead of email.
This way, you can interact with her in real time!
Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women
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