My readers often email me to complain about how the girls they like are always "too busy" to hang out with them.

I usually feel like laughing whenever I hear this.

The first thing that a guy should ask when asking out a "busy girl" is...

"Is she really busy?"

Listen. Women like to give excuses to guys whom they don't "really" like, and one of their favorite excuses is,

"Sorry, I am kinda busy this week."

Heck...I am a man and I use this excuse ALL THE TIME to turn women down.

It's innocent and you can turn away a person without hurting his or her feelings.

Here's the truth: If a woman is REALLY attracted to you, she WILL find SOME time to hang out with you no matter how busy she is - even if it is just one hour a week.

The only reason she won't is because she doesn't like you "enough".

Let's use YOU as an example...

If you were absolutely CRAZY about a gal, do you think you could spare an hour of your busy schedule this week to have a cup of coffee with her?

I bet the answer is "yes".

The same principle applies to women. If she likes you "enough", she will make SOME time for you - it's as simple as that.

Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women