Just How Comfortable Are You Physically Around Women?

Here's a short quiz taken from the Smart Dating Course:

    1) Can you look into a woman's eyes with desire without getting nervous and looking away in shame?

    2) Can you make out with a woman without tensing up?

    3) Can you walk around naked in front of a woman without feeling any embarrassment?

    4) Can you admit to a woman that you are "shallow" and love women who are hot and beautiful?

Why are these questions important? Because they show you just how comfortable you are with women physically, and if you have answered "no" to any of these questions, then you have a lot to work on.

Remember: If you want to be good with women, then you must first become comfortable with the idea with being with a woman!

If you aren't comfortable with having physical contact with women, then it will be extra tough for you to use body contact to flirt with women. You may also "tense up" when a woman makes a move on you, which will in turn create some awkward energy and make the woman feel uncomfortable around you as well.

Lastly, guys who are good with women are naturally comfortable with them, so by tensing up around the girl, it will show her that you are NOT the alpha male she is looking for.

If you aren't comfortable around women, then here are two exercises for you to try:

1) Be more physical with women from now on. It doesn't mean you have to hit on them or touch them sexually. Just have more "casual", friendly contacts with them. Be playful and get them into play wrestling matches with you. Be a bit childish and poke them or pinch them lightly.

Touch their elbows or knees when you talk. Cover their eyes from behind and get them to guess who you are.

2) Try to convey sexual communication through your eyes and body language instead of through words.

Instead of asking for a kiss, stare down at her lips and then look into her eyes again. Instead of telling her she's hot, let her catch you checking her out.

Work on expressing yourself through your body language instead of through your words.

In time, you will feel more comfortable physically when you're around women!

Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women

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