After a woman breaks up with you if you let it, in your mind life can take a turn for the worst.

If you feel this way and she contacts you after the breakup whatever you do don't tell her how depressed and down and out you have been since she left you; especially if you want her back.

First off its weak and most women don't like weak men.

Second, your telling her how sad you have been since she left you only confirms in her mind how little you did for her even if she has been feeling a little down and out since the breakup as well.

On the other hand, when you take the steps to regain control of your life and not allow yourself to become down and out.

When she calls and you make it seem as if life is going good for you, in her mind she will begin to wonder if perhaps breaking up with you was a mistake; especially if she has been feeling down and out since the break up.

(Of course this is assuming that you were involved in a relationship in which the happiness the other provided you was one of the reasons for getting involved in the relationship, from the start.)

While it would make sense for two people to get back together if they are both unhappy after the break up, it just doesn't work like that in a woman's mind.

She already believed that you were part of the reason for her unhappiness so when she calls and you are unhappy, in many ways this confirms part of the reason why she broke up with you.

However, if she calls and discovers that you are in a good mood, she is left to question why she broke up with you since you are happy and she is not, which isn't the way it is supposed to happen when she broke up with you, is it?

Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com