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When a woman tests you to see if you are the man, there is a limit to what I consider a "shit test" and to what I consider an indication of her bad character.
Either way, you never give in to it, and you SIMULTANEOUSLY never get upset by it. But if a woman tests you in a way that shows she is trying to strip you of your dignity, I would not consider such a woman worthy of your time, for any reason, even for "fun".
It IS interesting to see how your PROPER reaction to her shit test ALWAYS escalates
her attraction to you, no matter what.
If woman is sick in the head and trying to abuse you, it's HER problem; it's only YOUR problem if you STAY in that situation and allow it.
The only reason you ever stay in an abusive situation is because you have convinced yourself you NEED her.
That attitude is EMOTIONAL SUICIDE once an abusive woman sees this, she will tighten the noose around your emotional neck, and drain you of every last gasp of self-esteem you ever had, all in order to gain TOTAL CONTROL of you.
This is why I am SO GLAD I went through SO MUCH emotional crap with women.
Since I have ALREADY BEEN in just about every abusive situation with women, if a woman tries that stuff on me now, I just laugh for REAL , then chew it up into BITS and spit it back out, leaving it and revealing it for the NOTHINGNESS that it really is.
Because you see, it IS nothing.
And by my reaction to her, or shall we say rather LACK of a reaction to her "test", it's the BEST PROOF ON EARTH to her that indeed the whole issue she was making was ridiculous.
Sexual state, happiness, desire, all these things cannot be created nor destroyed by someone ELSE . These are emotions that people allow THEMSELVES to feel. So your only job with a woman is to help her allow her SELF to feel these emotions. And the best way to do that is to lead by EXAMPLE.
So how the F*** can she feel GREAT if YOU feel HORRIBLE about your SELF?
That not only creates a YUCKY VIBE that destroys the good times mode, it also makes her feel that you are loser, and if you are loser, then she by association must be a loser for hanging out with YOU.
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