One of the quickest ways to ruin any chance you have at getting her back is to lose and never regain control of yourself.

As it has been stated before, that first moment she breaks up with you maintaining control might not be an option.

Yet, if you are reading this right now you have already passed the point where you should have regained control of yourself.

Perhaps you didn't realize just how important maintaining control of yourself really is no matter if you want her back or you are ready to move on.

Maybe you don't understand what maintaining control of yourself really means.

Maintaining control of yourself when she breaks up with you is achieved by not allowing what she says is the cause of the breakup or what you think she wants you to do to get her back influence you in anyway.

In other words, when she breaks up with you it is not to be treated as a negotiation tactic at getting what she wants it is the end of your relationship and the two of you must go your separate ways.

When you give her a control of you by trying to do whatever is necessary in your mind you have no chance at getting her back.

You also don't give her a chance to want you back because there you are proving even more why she doesn't want you.

Now, that you have decided to maintain control of yourself and truly move on you create just enough space for her to wonder about you and understand what it was she liked about you.

As soon as that happens you might find yourself pleasantly surprised when she gives you control of her in order to win you back.

Just so you know that is a much better place to be when deciding if you really do want her back.

Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com