Everything you did and sacrificed for her during the relationship means absolutely nothing the moment she breaks up with you.

Whatever you bring up in an attempt to make her feel guilty about leaving you she has already considered and if she hasn't, in her mind it wasn't important enough to consider in the first place.

They were all gifts of the relationship and hopefully you got just as much if not more value from the relationship with her than the cost of what you did and sacrificed for her.

You should also know that anything else you plan on doing or sacrificing for her in an attempt to make her feel guilty after the fact won't work either.

If you really want her back, the best thing you can do is stop doing and sacrificing for her completely.

Anything that had already been planned before the breakup must be canceled or done by you with someone else.

Although you might still care for and love her deeply there should be absolutely no benefits to a woman who breaks up with you only costs.

At the same time you also must move on and begin creating a new and better life without her.

The more time you spend reminiscing about her and ways you can attempt to get her back.

Means more time that you waste on something that isn't benefiting you, which also makes it much less likely that she will come back to you.

Believe me if you really did as much as you think you did for her take it all away and watch how quickly she comes back.

Of course once you know she is only coming back for what you do for her and not for you as a person the decision is now yours to decide if you really want her back in your life.

Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com