Everybody makes mistakes it's a fact of life that you can't help.

However, you can attempt to avoid the mistakes of those who have come before you and learn from there mistakes as well.

When it comes to mistakes men make after the woman that you are with breaks up with you here are 5 mistakes you must learn from and avoid repeating.

1. Calling her
   I know you might miss the sound of her voice and the great conversations the two of you used to have but she doesn't and if she does your chances of getting her back increase with every day that goes by with her still missing and wanting to hear your voice.
2. Sending her an Email
   This seems like an effective way to force her to "hear you out" however all it does is get you wondering about her and her knowing about it. Whether she reads it and responds or simply deletes it you really don't know; however no matter what the odds are very slim that you will get the type of response that you are hoping for.
3. Telling her she is making a mistake
   Most of the time regardless if the person is right or wrong when you give them unsolicited advice on what you believe is a mistake on their part, they still are going to go ahead and make that mistak especially if it is in regards to you no longer being a part of her life.
4. Taking her more serious
   After she breaks up with you it is amazing how many men suddenly take all of her previous requests more seriously now. Not only is it too late for you to begin taking her seriously now is the time to not take her serious at all and act as if she will be back. In the meantime you are going to have some fun and take advantage of your newfound singleness.
5. Showing her how much you have changed
   Telling a woman about the changes that you have made that she wanted you to make during the relationship, is too little too late. If it makes you feel any better though odds are she still would have broken up with you had you made the changes that she wanted you to make during the relationship instead of after.

In the end, it is important that you begin to realize that when a woman breaks up with you for better or for worse, the relationship that you had with her will never be the same no matter what you do.

Teddy Shabba has been helping men achieve happiness and success with women in a way that allows you to feel authentic and comfortable with women.
If you are a man looking to make a change with women for the better Teddy Shabba is available for one-on-one coaching and can be reached by visiting his website at TeddyShabba.com

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