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Now there's a myth in society that says men want sex more than women.
This is a lie.
Women LOVE sex. Nothing feels better to a woman than being pleasured, pleasuring, and being filled by a man.
But if you're not sure of yourself in bed, you will be too timid to escalate.
In fact, you won't even notice obvious signals, because it will seem out of your reality that a woman would want to sleep with you.
So the self-defeating cycle perpetuates.
I know for myself, it took a long time to develop sexual confidence.
At first it was rare that I ever got laid.
When I did, I placed so much importance on it that I was nervous.
And as guys, we both know what being nervous in bed leads to...
Let's just say, you won't be "at your best."
Then something changed.
I realized that in pickup, as in life, it's all about what you pay attention to.
So I started cultivating a powerful focus in my interactions with women.
And it worked!
But I still wasn't the sexual powerhouse I wanted to be.
So I started thinking...if I can be better at meeting women, better at business, better at LIFE, just by adjusting my focus, maybe I can be better at sex as well.
So I started trying different kinds of focus when I'd sleep with women. And they started responding POWERFULLY.
My confidence skyrocketed. This was one of the biggest turning points of my life.
I literally SLEPT WITH MORE WOMEN IN ONE MONTH than my whole life before that
Before I go on, I want to talk about an interesting side-effect of being sexually confident.
Women approach YOU and escalate on YOU.
I mean, I actually get approached by HOT WOMEN...and trust me, I'm no Brad Pitt.
I think when a guy is sexually confident, he has different body language than other guys. It's subtle, but women definitely pick up on it.
You see, women are fine-tuned to notice the little things that give men away.
So let's say a woman is at the bar and sees a good-looking guy who in his mind doesn't believe in his sexual abilities.
He will stand a certain way, talk a certain way...he'll reveal little cues about what he thinks of himself.
Compare this to a guy who is maybe average looking, short, and dressed like a slob.
But he KNOWS that he is God's Gift to women. He has a certain way he moves, stands, talks, looks people in the eye.
And though women aren't usually aware of it, they SENSE THAT HE'S GOOD IN BED.
I really think it's important that if a guy wants to be good with women, he must be good in bed.
There's nothing more powerful than looking at a woman, and KNOWING YOU CAN RAVISH HER.
One thing I hate to see is when one of my friends worries about what his girlfriend is doing or who she's with.
I know the real issue - he's worried some guy can give her what she wants better than he can.
And then I start to feel sorry for his girlfriend because I know that she's probably NOT SATISFIED.
As a man, I think it's part of your responsibility to make women feel good.
They are relying on you!
So work on your "sex-game."
Sex is the greatest joy, and if you're good at sex, you'll have better sex, which every man deserves.
It's your natural right as a sexual being to ENJOY SEX.
But it starts with the right focus.
We go over this HEAVILY in The Attraction Code.
In fact, The Attraction Code is not just a guide for pickup, dating, and life. It's also a SEX MANUAL.
The only one you'll ever need....
Society is cock blocking you at the most fundamental level by making you
a) feel sexually inadequate, and
b) misdirecting your focus when it comes to women.
Vin DiCarlo has written The Attraction Code to help men achieve what they are looking for in women.
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