It's so rare when you see a movie that really shows the right vibe that is attractive.

A lot of guys ask me what are good movies to see that show a good example of pick-up.

The answer is not too many, but one flick that definitely captures the "AURA" of personality that is attractive is "Out of Sight" with George Clooney and Jennifer Lopez.

It's not exactly pick up, but still, his PERSONALITY is very apparent.

In the first scene with them together, he locks himself in the trunk of a getaway car as he escapes from jail.

She's an FBI agent, he's the guy she's AFTER to put him away, and yet still he likes her because he just does. In the entire scene, he is not talking about ANYTHING deep, he chats with her casually about if they met under different circumstances that she would probably be into him, and even though she says "no way", he is totally relaxed, just vibing with her, his voice very chilled out, confident, and yet friendly.

He makes contact with her, his fingers tapping on her thigh, not creepy but friendly as he casually chats about movies (like Bonnie and Clyde) with her that remind him of the current situation between him and her in the car and the escape. Within a few moments, she can't help it, she is conversing with him, and enjoying it, because she can tell that he is NOT TRYING TO CONVINCE her of anything, not trying to get her to be sexual with him, and in fact it's almost as if he is chatting more for his own self.

Now, later in the movie, there is a scene where her character, Karen, is sitting at a table in a virtually empty lounge and a group of a guys at the bar, executive-types, see her.

They attempt to pick her up, a few of them, and they make all the mistakes, yet it's so true to reality, to the way most guys act with women who are beautiful.

One guy tells the waitress to tell Karen he'll pay for her drink. Karen tells the waitress she'd rather pay for her own.

The next guy walks up to her and is all smiley telling her that he had a bet with his friends on whether he could "read her situation" and determine what she does for a living, and exactly how she is feeling right now, and exactly why she is feeling that way.

His body language shows that he is trying to make a SHOW and also that
he thinks he is "all that" in a way that actually says he is not "all that". He's also wrong about all his guesses about her, which is because he went too specific.

He does his whole act and tells her what he thinks her job is, why she has the current expression on her face, etc. She turns him down. But you can see from his demeanor that he is trying to impress her and that his own ego is being affected by it, i.e. it matters too much too him.

Another dude comes up and introduces himself and starts telling her that he's come in from some business campaign and he goes into detail about the "cute" advertising campaign that they've developed, hoping this will impress her.

He goes on and on, qualifying himself to high hell, as if he is sooooo great and that she should be soooooo impressed.

She sits there, patiently listening to this guy go on and on about himself, till finally, she tells him to go fly a kite.

It's interesting, because when a guy acts like this, he's simultaneously showing that he not only is not cool, but that he is actually arrogant, even if he isn't - but it just SEEMS like he is.

In reality, it's insecurity that makes him feel the need to act all high and mighty. And that's not cool.

Then, after they all disappear, Clooney's character slowly steps in, stands at the table for moment, silent. Then, calmly, offers her a drink, but the difference is that she already KNOWS him, and also that CLEARLY he is not trying to manipulate her.

He is not putting on a show. His tonality says, without actually
saying the words "I already know you like me, so clearly this offer of a drink is not to impress you, it's rather how I actually want to treat you even though I already have you."

Has he tried to show off? No.
Has he been dishonest? No.
Has he established innocent physical contact? Yes.
Has he focused on the moment? Yes.

And if you want to get results like that in REAL LIFE, I encourage you to GET OUT THERE FOR REAL and start applying the things you are reading about here.

It's good stuff.

Michael The Dating Wizard has developed a program that helps men "Naturally Attract Women" instead of using memorized pick up lines or someone elses material and methods The Dating Wizard shows you how to be the YOU woman naturally want with his ebook Secrets to Success With Women